http://100huntley.com/lovedare/2010/01/29/595/ Dare to Love Sat, 04 Sep 2010 16:28:35 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.1 hourly 1 http://100huntley.com/lovedare/2010/01/29/595/comment-page-1/#comment-526 lyn Wed, 03 Feb 2010 22:39:25 +0000 http://100huntley.com/lovedare/?p=595#comment-526 The dare about unrealistic expectations was very good. It's nice to hear that I am not the only one with unrealistic expectations. My sister has been chatting with me about this for awhile now. As I went thru this dare and thot of my sis's advice, it was good for me. I have tonnes and tonnes of unrealistic expectations of my husband. Um well I guess well I have been stuggling with my relationship with Christ since moving here (when we got married 4 years ago) I had a very very exciting powerfull church where I was and a not so powerful one here -- even tho this is no excuse it has been a part of my spiritual - well sleepyness is a good way to say it. Ok too much background any way as a result, all those things that I used to let Christ take care of when I was single has slipped away. Christ as my everything - my comfort - my company - my joy - my strength - my significance - and more. Now I am trying to get it all from my husband and God did not create him or any husband to fulfill these needs. This has created so so many problems. And now -- well I admited it to him -- he thot it was kinda wierd because he knows nothing about the love dare -- and now every day trying to let Christ be my life. I think I wrote a bit about this on the general comments page as well. The dare about unrealistic expectations was very good. It’s nice to hear that I am not the only one with unrealistic expectations.
My sister has been chatting with me about this for awhile now. As I went thru this dare and thot of my sis’s advice, it was good for me. I have tonnes and tonnes of unrealistic expectations of my husband. Um well I guess well I have been stuggling with my relationship with Christ since moving here (when we got married 4 years ago) I had a very very exciting powerfull church where I was and a not so powerful one here — even tho this is no excuse it has been a part of my spiritual – well sleepyness is a good way to say it. Ok too much background any way as a result, all those things that I used to let Christ take care of when I was single has slipped away. Christ as my everything – my comfort – my company – my joy – my strength – my significance – and more. Now I am trying to get it all from my husband and God did not create him or any husband to fulfill these needs. This has created so so many problems. And now — well I admited it to him — he thot it was kinda wierd because he knows nothing about the love dare — and now every day trying to let Christ be my life. I think I wrote a bit about this on the general comments page as well.

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